Are guys supposed to have resumes?
I think we need to first deal with whether or not girls are supposed to have resumes.
Short answer- no.
Long answer- not really.
There has never been an instance when I have responded to a shidduch (in the affirmative or the negatory- look it up) based on a resume. In fact, most of the girls I have gone out with haven't had resumes, and I thought nothing of it. There is barely any information on resumes that isn't mentioned by the shadchan.
But what about references?
1) I don't call references. Shhhhh. It's a secret. I never bother with the people placed down on a resume. I will usually only call one person, and that is a person who is connected to both myself and the potential girl (well, she is already a girl), so potential wife? (no, that's to forward), potential girlfriend? (I hate that word), potential significant other? (alright, but only becaus i have nothing else). OK, so I call someone connected to both of us and ask them one question: "Do you see it?" If the answer is yes, we have a date (at least on my end). If not, we still may have a date. It depends on the reason.
That's it. I get most of the information from a shadchan and if there's more to be said, I'll let the girl say it for herself. Girls do not need a resume.
So here's what it comes down to: What's the point of a resume? Well, I guess it's a handy piece of paper for the shadchan to have. It kinda lets him or her know just what is going on in the guy's/girl's life. That's a plus. So in terms of that, I don't usually take suggestions from people who don't know me. It's weird. You have no connection to me other than the time you saw me davening Mincha and thought "that's a good guy." You have no clue about anything I associate myself with. Don't make these weird attempts. So basically, I will only take a shidduch from someone who already understands a little bit about me. There goes that reason.
The only other reason I see to have a resume is for one's self. I have something I right down about myself (who I am, what I'm looking for, etc.) never to be viewed by others. If you are writing a resume for this reason, there is no need to publicize it. It's for your own good. Nobody else need read it.
The question I hate most that I've seen on various resume templates is "Briefly describe your hashkafa in the space given." My response is: "I cannot fully explain my hashkafa in the space given. Talk to me."
Resumes mean nothing. Not for guys, not for girls. DOWN WITH RESUMES!